Our nature is ultimate love, also known as unconditional love. My ascension path had travailed many states of the heart, communities, and transformations of spirit, in order to show me the truth of our nature as living beings on earth. That truth is that our nature is ultimate love, and it is the product of the nature-nurture balance between our ascended angelic state and our natural wiring for communal living. That balance between ascension and communal living creates an internal and external balance of ultimate love, and is a process that we all go through on the ascension path.
One of the final stages of ascension is finding your soul community or soul tribe. Ascension is ultimately a process home, into the heart of Gaia and to the activation of our Diamond Heart. I realized long ago that I was starved of ultimate love, and that a society organized to separate on socio-spiritual levels has no connection to the heart. These are the realizations that set me on my ascension path to ultimate love all those years ago. The ultimate love that anchored into my Diamond Heart was the most sobering and satisfying gift of my life. What required so much commitment to my transformation landed me in an anchored state of ultimate love, the most sacred gift for us as spiritual beings.
On my ascension path, as I moved into the knowing of who and what I am as ultimate love, I realized that any stuck-ness I had as states of conditional love stemmed from the fact that I was too sacre to live as I felt naturally inclined. That natural inclination was to live communally in symbiosis and sovereign union (which Stephanie teaches here at the Academy). I felt that most of us wanted to live communally, but were too scared to change our accustomed and normalized states of separation.
We, as a collective, no longer organize ourselves in a way that allows for our nature to unfold and actualize. That is, we as humans are naturally wired to organize into communal tribes, where all members have a parcel and significant role. In a communal tribe, we all are part of the commune, equal “pillars” holding up the tribe. When we all have innate and practical and unquestionable value, we end up attaching to one another interdependently and not co- or in- dependently. We live symbiotically with one another, and thus live symbiotically with ourselves. In an interdependent tribe, my survival enhances your survival; my growth improves your growth; my happiness, love, courage and spirit anchors yours.
As a sustainable symbiosis of life, communion creates a community designed to thrive long-term. I define communion as the natural heart-based symbiosis and coming together of individuals into a communal whole. Communion for us happens similarly to a network of species inside an ecosystem. Take a forest, the sustainability of the forest exists on the interdependence and connection of all the species. When we are not living communally/interdependently, we exist in an unbalanced state of polarity—codependency and independence. Most of us are not taught that codependency or independence are unhealthy polarities to our natural wiring. This is something we awaken to on our ascension path.
When I un-learned the polarity of independence and transmuted it into a balanced state of sovereignty, a massive part of my heart healed. Sovereignty means that you automatically live for you, take care of you, and love you as your core love. In other words, in addition to the mating with you and individuals in the tribe, and the tribe itself, you are self-mated. That is, you are synchronized or “mated” with your own heart. Sovereignty is a multi-dimensional state that honors and nurtures our natural make-up. In a sovereign state, you do not have a desire for isolation or freedom from “others”. You do not withdraw and you are not socially anxious. The freedom you seek already exists as an immortal state inside of you. Your courage and confidence are your anchors. You are in total control of your boundaries and your powers. As a sovereign being, you pursue happiness or fulfillment within and through yourself, and not in or through others.
Due to our unbalanced organization and its starvation of ultimate love, codependency was programmed into us as natural state of partnership. Codependency is, in actuality, a tool for separation. It unnaturally separates sovereign individuals who are wired to integrate and inter-connect with other sovereign individuals in communion, splitting them into disconnected individuals and taking out their sovereignty. Codependency stems from our natural wiring for communion, attachment and connection. But codependency can only happen when we do not experience that natural communion, attachment and connection, and thus a fear-based attachment known as codependency results. What we learn from the polarity of codependency is that communion without sovereignty is communion without consciousness, which ultimately creates a state of separation.
All beings on Gaia are designed as individual and interdependent parts of a larger whole. We match, integrate (or inter-gate, as in move through gates together or through one another as gates) and synchronize with other human beings to create a commune or tribe. The imbalance on Gaia happens when beings become codependent or independent. In other words, they become separate from the whole.
Codependency is pretending that you want to match, integrate and synchronize with other beings, but you do not actually want to because you do not ultimately trust. However, you try to anyway because you ultimately do not want to be alone. Independence is pretending that you do not want to match, integrate and synchronize with other beings, but you actually want to because you do not ultimately want to be alone. However, you do not try to at all because you ultimately do not trust. When these unbalanced polarities come into balance, our biology and spirituality come into balance, which makes us healthier, happier and truer beings. We no longer dream of Diamond Earth or ultimate love as wants. Instead, we dream Diamond Earth and ultimate love awake. They become a natural and practical creation of our communal living mating with our conscious ascension to ultimate love.
To heal Gaia is to make her whole. The consciousness of ultimate love is the key to healing Gaia because it is the key unlocking our natural state of life on earth—love and communion. The path to ascension gives us the key to heal our nature and thus ourselves. When we heal ourselves, we heal Gaia. And that is our most sobering, satisfying, and sacred gift on earth.
All My Love,